"ON WITH THE SHOW!"... You’ve Gotta Have Heart ...
by Ron Hevener
There was something about her that stood out from the time she was born.
Experienced breeders know what it is, but they can't always explain it to those
uninitiated in the ways of Nature. Suffice it to say, there was a quality about
her that could, if the gods smiled and all went well, make her a star.
It wouldn't be easy. From a bumbling baby, struggling to stand on her own, she
would make it through all the trials facing a young animal in this world. She
would untangle her legs, raise her head high and stare at the moon. She would
sing to the gods and laugh at the clouds and play with the wind. She would be
what she was -- mind, body and soul. She would be a cat -- nothing more, nothing
less - chasing the mist of destiny.
All of us see, at one time or another, cats that catch our attention and stand
out in a crowd. Call it a mysterious link - call it a deep, inner "knowing" - or
call it love at first sight - we know when we feel it.
I've often wondered if everybody feels the same way in the presence of cats that
electrify us this way. I don't have an answer to that, because we all seem to
respond to something different. We could be at a show and each of us could be
falling in love with a different entry. I could be saying "Can you believe that!
Look at those markings!" and, right next to me, somebody else could be bored to
death!
Much of this, of course, has to do with our own idea of what makes a good cat.
It also has a lot to do with the chemistry crackling between owners and the cats
in their charge. But, no matter how the pieces of the puzzle fit together, we
all feel it.
There are some cats ... graced by something almost other-worldly ... that just
take your breath away. Those are the ones that almost everybody agrees on. You
might be able to pick them apart and say this is "wrong" and that could be
better, but, something makes it all work - even if it shouldn't. Those are the
ones that last forever in our hearts.
Stories? I could tell you stories about cats that would unravel for miles. If we
were starting in New York and driving all the way to California, you wouldn't
need a radio to keep you company because I'd be talking about famous, talented
cats you know - and a zillion others you'll never meet. By the time we reached
Los Angeles, you'd swear you knew their colours, their sires & dams and the
mischief in their eyes.
What transports a bumbling kitten into a star? What magic does it take to create
a champion or a cat that captures the imagination of the public? It takes more
than you might think and more than many owners can provide, but it is impossible
for the cats you love to change from obscurity into household names? I would say
it's as possible as your willingness to do whatever it takes.
Many of us would say pedigree weeds out the losers. Still others would say it's
all in the training or grooming. And most of us believe enough in our favourite
feeds and nutritional supplements to praise them from the top of the highest
mountain! But, training, grooming and nutrition can vary greatly and, much as I
respect a good and honourable pedigree, some of us have learned that pedigrees
are only as good as the people who write them. Pedigree, alone, doesn't make a
legend.
As I often say, if you think of people and their pets as athletes or actors,
then all we have to do is look to the masters of public entertainment for
answers. Look to Hollywood directors, high-powered agents and Broadway
producers. As they well know, great stars can hail from both sides of the
tracks. But, we're talking about cats, you say. Yes, we are. But, we're also
talking about the people who love them.
From the time a kitten is born, it is your own creative power and desire that
determine the outcome of its life. If you believe in a cat's chances for success
- if you're lucky enough to find a cat that's really special - then, most of us
would feel compelled to take that cat to the top or die trying. Along the way
during such an adventure, you learn all kinds of things. You study and figure
things out because, maybe, nobody in your life ever made it to the top before
and now you have to. Before you know it, you can advertise effectively, you can
network with the best of them and you know every trick in the trade. Some you'll
use; some you won't. But, at least you'll know about them.
We've mentioned pedigree, training, feeding and basic care, but we skipped over
the biggest thing of all - and it's the one thing you can affect more than
anything else in the making of a champion. We didn't mention Heart. Do I mean
the actual size of a cat's heart? Am I speaking about its weight and
circumference? Not really. Yes, I've heard stories about animals with
bigger-than-average hearts and some people say that's the secret of a champion.
But, much as I, too, am fascinated by stories of the great Secretariat's
unusually large heart, for example, I do not believe an oversized heart makes a
champion. I don't believe it because each of the elements we've mentioned here
are the ingredients of a recipe. A little more of this, or a little less of
that, will change the outcome of a whole life. Including your own.
As we bring our beautiful cats into the world with each generation; as they
struggle to nurse and we hold our breath as they unfold into the most beautiful
things we've ever seen, know this: You are the ingredient that makes the
difference. No matter how perfect they seem, only the greatness of your love can
bring out the best in them. Only you can change a heart.
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